"Your first name of Ian creates a serious, thoughtful nature, shrewd, efficient, and business-minded. You are one to make your own decisions, and not be influenced by others. You desire independence and freedom from the authority and interference of others. You are not overly ambitious, preferring instead just to seek stable, settled conditions which are adequate to meet your responsibilities. In your personal relations with others, you are inclined to be rather serious, and not to see the humour others see, or to respond spontaneously. Your positive manner and outlook can make others feel that you are imposing your will on them and even interfering in their affairs."
I am not particularly serious or thoughtful most of the time, nor am I efficient or business minded. Everyone desires independance and freedom, or at least thinks they do. I've got ambition up the wazoo. Not see the humour others see? More like the other way around. Although, yes, I can come across as domineering. There, now we've all done it (I think).